Pragdealism

Orientation in an Age of Change.

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Seeking Wisdom in an Intertidal Moment

Information is everywhere. Intelligence is everywhere. Wisdom? Not so much.

The challenge of our time isn’t technology, or even its “intelligence.” It’s our mindset.

“Seeking Wisdom in an Intertidal Moment,” explores why, and what it takes to choose a different one.

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Published: I Took the Red Pill

Have you ever had an idea, a vision, something you really wanted to do, that turned out to be more work than you ever imagined? You know, the kind of pursuit that makes you say, "If I'd known how much work this was going to be, I never would have started."

It happens to me all the time. And that's by design.

My book Seeker's Mindset is now published. Here's the story behind it.

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Even Uncertainty Has Changed

Years ago I bought a small framed print in a shop in Fairbanks. It read: "When nothing is certain, anything is possible." I never forgot those words.

When the future breaks open, revealing the new and unexpected, do you see a peril or a possibility? Your response matters more than you think.

My latest article in the Pragdealist newsletter takes a closer look at the powerful insight the print offered.

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The Worry We Choose

How do we choose what we worry about?

Two challenges. Two things to worry about. Two opposite reactions — and, I think, the same instinct underneath both.

In my latest piece, I dig into why we ignored the danger we were sure of and fear the one we can't predict — and what that says about how we meet change.

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The Worst Advice

Have you ever handed off something you enjoyed in the name of efficiency or profit, and regretted it? We're told, more insistently every day, to let the machine do whatever it can do for us. But some of what we're being urged to give up is the very thing that provided the value, that made the work — and the day — worth it.

This essay is about the impact and hidden cost of outsourcing experience.

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The Trophy Shop

As a child, I walked into a trophy shop. Little did I know I was catching a glimpse of the future.

The attention economy, to be precise.

I'm not referring to the corporate commodity side that extracts and trades in our algorithmically monitored preferences. I'm speaking of the consequences of living and working within it.

My new piece, The Trophy Shop, is about that difference—and where real validation actually comes from. (Hint: it starts with your why.)

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The Fun-to-Misery Ratio

I stopped chasing work-life balance and started using something simpler: the Fun-to-Misery Ratio. The premise—it's only work if you'd rather be doing something else. Take the time to notice.

It's a mindset that shatters the illusion of work-life balance—because it was one life all along, yours.

New post on why balance is the wrong goal, and what to measure instead.

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The Cerebral Department of Transportation

Why do some beliefs only deepen, no matter the evidence to the contrary?

The answer lives in how our brains construct and maintain the roads our thoughts travel.

This essay is a guide to the Cerebral Department of Transportation, and learning to direct the road crew so we arrive at the destination of our intent.

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The Definition of Insanity has Changed

We all know the old definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

But in a changing world, is that definition still accurate? I don't think so. Most of us are working from a script we didn't write, with expectations we rarely question. That worked well enough when the currents of change were placid. They're not anymore.

My latest piece is about that gap: why the ground feels like it's shifting under us, and what kind of mindset actually meets the moment.

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What Am I to That?

Everything is changing, everywhere, all at once.

We won't find stability by trying to hold on to something in perpetual motion.

When change hits, the instinct is to interrogate it: What is this? We demand the chaos explain itself so we can sort it, rank it, make it hold still. It never does.

So, I recommend asking a different question. Not about the chaos—but about ourselves.

What am I to that?

To that circumstance. That change. That decision. The first question scatters our authority. The second puts us back in command.

It's the question at the heart of my book, Seeker's Mindset. And the key to stability amid constant movement.

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The End-User Awards the Prize

Thirty years implementing new technologies taught me one lesson the current AI discourse keeps missing:

Innovation, implementation, and user adoption are three entirely different things.

I've watched interactive whiteboards get rejected in favor of dry-erase markers. I've watched sophisticated audioconferencing systems get bypassed for a Polycom in the middle of the table. I've watched oilfield workers cover the camera with a baseball cap—the "hat-cam"—to guard against prying eyes.

Forecasts about AI's impact are measuring from the wrong end of the supply chain.

If we choose carefully, we become the authors of the story—not a character within it.

My latest essay: The End-User Awards the Prize — What the Hat-Cam Taught Me

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If You Control Attention, You Control the Future.

We become what we think about.

Earl Nightingale said it about personal development in the 1950s. But what happens when you scale it up? What a society pays attention to is what it becomes.

So what are we becoming?

It's easy to blame social media for our divisions—and it deserves plenty of blame. But the fire was lit decades earlier. In this post, I trace our current divide back to a single decision in 1987—one most people never connect to the world we're living in now.

When that decision was made, a responsibility that had belonged to a trusted few shifted onto each of us. It's a responsibility we are still struggling to come to terms with.

The good news? Our attention still belongs to us. But reclaiming requires effort.

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Ultra-Processed Communication

Somewhere along the way, we began mistaking communication for understanding. We live in a world of memes, reels, headlines, emojis, and reaction posts—ultra-processed fragments of thought delivered at extraordinary speed. Information has never been more abundant, yet understanding so scarce.

In this article, I explore what happens when context collapses into code. When nuance gives way to signaling.

When we mistake emotional triggers and self-validation for actual knowledge. The issue isn't simply what we consume. Increasingly, it's how we express ourselves—and even who we are becoming.

To paraphrase Daniel J. Boorstin: The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance—it is the illusion of knowledge.

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The World Is Unstable. We Don't Have to Be.

I felt like I was racing the wind.

Writing a book about change while change keeps happening is its own kind of vertigo. Examples I drafted on Monday were stale by Friday. Headlines I cited became footnotes.

Fortunately, the book isn't really about change. It's about us—how we respond when change and disruption swirl around us and the ground keeps shifting beneath our feet.

Seeker's Mindset is about reclaiming our authority and our awareness. About taking action instead of taking blame. About taking control of our lives and how we meet the day.

The antidote in the moment isn't outrunning the winds of change. It's awareness—and learning how to harness them.

Every generation inherits challenges it did not create. Ours is no different.

We may not be responsible for what happens. But we are responsible for how we respond.

How will you respond?

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Trust the lesson. Question the flinch.

Experience is not only what we learned—it's how we felt about the effort.

When I asked my wife to build the website for my new book, I watched the blood drain from her face.

She's built them before. That was the problem. Experience, oddly enough, had made her a bit of a luddite.

What happened next surprised us both—and changed how I think about experience itself.

Yesterday's experience is not today's experience.

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Don't Keep Up. Keep Out.

"I don't care—I like it."

That was the response when my wife pointed out to an old friend that the political meme he'd just shared on Facebook was clearly false.

The moment stuck with me. It's the attention economy in miniature—not truth, not understanding, just whatever feels good in the scroll.

This is about what we lose when we let our feeds do our thinking for us—and what it might look like to take some of it back.

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